How Can I Hold on to Memories of My Mum After She Passed Away?
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We all know how hard it is to navigate those deep, emotional questions after losing someone you love. You want to keep them close, hold on to every little moment, and honour their memory—but sometimes, it’s hard to know how to start.
That’s why Thalia, our resident expert in meaningful keepsakes and memory preservation at Make Memento, is here to help. If you’re wondering how to hold on to your mum’s memory, don’t worry—Thalia is here to help.
So, let’s take a look at today’s reader question...How Can I Hold On to Memories of My Mum After She Passed Away?
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Reader's Question: How Can I Hold on to Memories of My Mum After She Passed Away? Thalia's says... What Is a Memory Box? What to Include in a Memory Box for Your Mum How to Use a Memory Box Other Ways to Keep Your Mum’s Memory Alive Thalia's Closing Tips Find the Perfect Memory Box to Keep Your Mum Close Frequently Asked Questions
Reader's Question: How Can I Hold on to Memories of My Mum After She Passed Away?
Hi Thalia,
I lost my mum recently, and I’m struggling to figure out how to keep her memory alive. I don’t want to forget all the little things that made her so special. What’s the best way to hold on to those memories?
Thalia's says...
Thalia, our expert in grief and remembrance, says:
Losing your mum is one of the hardest things you’ll ever go through, and wanting to hold on to her memory is a beautiful way to keep her close. One of the most meaningful ways to do this is by creating a memory box—a special place where you can keep all the little treasures and reminders of your time together.
What Is a Memory Box?
Thalia explains:
A memory box is a personal keepsake container where you can collect items that remind you of your mum. It’s more than just a box—it’s a way to tell her story and revisit those cherished moments whenever you need to feel connected.
What to Include in a Memory Box for Your Mum
If you’re not sure where to start, here are a few ideas Thalia recommends:
- Photographs: Special moments, family holidays, or her favourite everyday memories.
- Handwritten Notes: Letters, cards, or even a grocery list written in her handwriting.
- Personal Items: A scarf she loved, her favourite jewellery, or a small trinket tied to her hobbies.
- Scented Memories: A bottle of her favourite perfume or a sachet with a fragrance she loved.
- Unique Touches: A recipe she used to make, a gardening glove, or a ticket stub from a family outing.
Thalia’s Tips: The best items to include are the ones that make you smile or feel close to her. It’s all about what matters most to you.
How to Use a Memory Box
Thalia suggests:
Your memory box isn’t just a container—it’s a way to honour your mum’s life and the love you shared. Set aside time to look through it on her birthday, Mother’s Day, or any time you’re missing her. It’s a simple yet powerful way to reconnect with her memory.
Adding to your memory box can be just as meaningful as looking through it. Over time, you might come across new items—an old photo tucked away in a drawer, a recipe she wrote down, or a song that suddenly reminds you of her. Don’t hesitate to add these treasures whenever they surface.
There’s no rush or timeline when it comes to building a memory box. You can add to it whenever something special comes to mind, and each new addition is another way to keep her story alive.
You might even consider making it a tradition to add something on significant dates, like her birthday or during the holidays, as a way to reflect on the memories you’ve shared and keep creating new ways to honour her legacy.
Other Ways to Keep Your Mum’s Memory Alive
Thalia adds:
If a memory box doesn’t feel right for you, there are plenty of other ways to celebrate your mum’s life, like creating a photo book, planting a tree in her honour, or donating to a charity she cared about.
Thalia's Closing Tips
Thalia Says:
Holding on to your mum’s memory is a deeply personal journey. There’s no right or wrong way to do it—what matters is that it feels meaningful to you. A memory box is just one of many ways to celebrate her life and keep her close to your heart.
Find the Perfect Memory Box to Keep Your Mum Close
A memory box is a beautiful way to hold on to your mum’s memory, filled with the keepsakes and treasures that remind you of her. At Make Memento, we create personalised memory boxes to help you keep those cherished moments safe and close to your heart.
Each box can be customised with her name, a meaningful date, a heartfelt message, or even a special photo, making it a unique and special way to celebrate her life and the love you shared.
Explore our memory box collection today to find a handcrafted, personalised memory box that helps you feel connected to her, always.
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Frequently Asked Questions
What should I include in a memory box to remember my Mum?
A memory box is all about collecting the things that bring back special memories of your mum. You could include photos from family holidays, handwritten letters or notes she gave you, a piece of her jewellery, or even something tied to her favourite hobbies, like a recipe card or a gardening tool. Personal touches, like a spritz of her favourite perfume or a lyric from a song she loved, can also make the box feel even more meaningful. Choose items that remind you of her warmth, love, and personality.
What’s the best way to remember a loved one who has passed?
There’s no single “right” way to remember someone—it’s all about what feels most meaningful to you. Many people find comfort in creating a memory box, filled with keepsakes that tell their story. Others may prefer writing in a journal, planting a tree in their honour, or celebrating their life with family traditions on special dates. The most important thing is finding a way to keep their memory close to your heart in a way that feels personal and comforting.
Can I personalise a memory box for someone special?
Yes! Personalising a memory box is a wonderful way to make it unique and heartfelt. At Make Memento, we offer handcrafted memory boxes that can be customised with names, dates, or special messages to make them truly one-of-a-kind. This adds a personal touch that celebrates the life and love of the person you’re remembering.
How do I keep my mum’s memory alive in everyday life?
Keeping your mum’s memory alive can be as simple as incorporating her into your daily life. You might keep a photo of her in a place where you see it every day, carry a small keepsake of hers with you, or listen to her favourite music. Sharing stories about her with family and friends or cooking her signature recipes can also help keep her spirit present. A memory box can complement these rituals, giving you a special place to revisit when you need to feel close to her.
What if I don’t have many items to include in a memory box?
That’s okay! A memory box doesn’t need to be filled all at once—it’s something you can build over time. Even a few meaningful items, like a favourite photo or a piece of jewellery, can make it special. You can also include notes or letters you’ve written, sharing your thoughts and feelings about your mum. It’s not about how much you include but how meaningful each piece is to you.
